Forced Patience
Read Ecclesiastes 11:3-5
A farm has been my home nearly all
of my life. I grew up on a hog farm, then later married a dairy farmer. (I also
had to go from being an aficionado of the green tractor to favoring the red,
but that’s another story.) I’ve been surrounded by fields of soy beans, corn,
oats, alfalfa, sugar beets, sweet corn, and peas. My father was a farmer; my
father-in-law was a farmer. My brother, nephew, and husband are farmers, not to
mention many of our friends.
None of this makes me an expert on
farming; but perhaps it’s safe to say I know a thing or two about farmers.
Forced patience. That’s the phrase
that describes it best. Not every farmer is patient by nature, but nature
forces a type of patience on the farmer, and it becomes a part of how they must
live. They have no choice in the matter. Planting, rains, growth, ripening, and
harvest cannot be rushed and will come when it’s time, not when it’s
convenient. If a farmer has his planter ready to go in February, he still must
wait for the ground temperature, soil conditions, and weather to be right for
allowing the best growth of the seed, which won’t like happen until April or
so. (This is Minnesota, for Pete’s sake.) Likewise, he could try to harvest his
corn in August when the weather is still nice, but the stalks will be green and
muck up the combine. The grain will be small. It won’t come off the ear well
and will be too wet to be stored anyway. There’s just no rushing it. Doing any
farming task before its time would bring no reward.
This is a life lesson we all need
to learn. Forcing God to act before His time (as if we could!) will not bring
the result that He desires. This is very hard because we only see how we are
affected by the waiting, and don’t begin to comprehend what God can see.
As I wait for my son to come back
to the Lord, everything in me wants it to happen right now! That certainly
seems like the best outcome for me. As I’ve studied and sought God in this area
of my life, however, I’ve been reminded that God is working all of the
experiences in his life for good – to be used for God’s glory – while we pray
him through it. My prayer is that God will
allow all of the experiences necessary for my son to become the person God
wants him to be when he is ready to serve God again. (And I pray for that to happen
as quickly as possible – I’m still a human mom, after all.)
We must
wait for all of the experiences necessary for God’s purposes to be
accomplished.
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How does this perspective help you?
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Where or how does it put up road blocks for you?
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Pray for God to help you see your situation from His
perspective.
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